Drama or Trauma?

“Omg stop being so dramatic about everything.” 💅🏻

“Don’t tell her. Ya know how she is suuuch a Sensitive Sally.”

Anyone else been called “Sensitive Sally” or is that just me? Maybe it’s some other variation of the word. 🤮🤮🤮

What if it’s…. ✨TrAuMa✨

You ain’t no drama mama, you’ve just had too much trauma!

Ya know what, maybe you ARE a sensitive sally, but ya know what I AIN’T?? 👇🏻😉

Callous and self-centered.

I had this talk with my 9 year old yesterday, “If you don’t go to certain people for advice, then DON’T take their opinions or criticism to heart.” If they don’t have YO BEST INTEREST at HEART, then whoooo kerrrs what they say?!?!

SO MANY deal with this eerrrrry single day. Stop it.

WWJD!! What WOULD Jesus do? Well, I’d say HE is pretty sensitive. Do you think our Heavenly Father bottles up OUR TEARS just because He think a zillion tear-filled jars would look good on His shelf? 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

Orrr, maybe perhaps it’s because we are made in HIS image and HE cries? He KNOWS how WE feel because…HE created us? 👀

Maybe because when Lazarus died, He WEPT. He knew Lazarus was gonna pop right back up in a bit, but still, He WEPT.🤷🏻‍♀️

So, stop listening to the haters. 🙅🏻‍♀️

If you need an encouraging group to surround and uplift you, and cry with you rather than roll their eyes at you, I provide that place.👩🏻‍🤝‍👩🏻👯‍♀️🙏🏻

It’s full of love and prayer warriors for other “Drama Mama’s and Sensitive Sally’s” like me and you! 🙄 (Except, we don’t call you that. We call you your regular ol’ name because these are regular ol’ emotions that we were gifted. Emotions that should be seen as gifts.)

Anyway, stepping down from my soap box.

Click here if you want to info on my membership group.

Because we are awesome and would love to welcome you with open arms and love you like Jesus does! 😍😁😊

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Finding Joy in Parenting: Overcoming Common Struggles

Can we do both? Is it possible to actually enjoy parenting?

Parenting is tough. If we all agree on that, I challenge you to answer some of these questions:
1. Do you find yourself yelling at your spouse and kids?
2. Do you worry about traumatizing your kids?
3. Do you want to stop the generational trauma you were raised in from continually being passed on?
4. Do you constantly second (and third) guess yourself when making parenting/disciplining decisions?

If you answered “yes” to any of those, then you are in the right place! Nobody with a decent heart wants to cause harm to their kids. The truth is, nobody is perfect (thank you Lord for Your mercy and grace!) despite how much we try.
When we mess up, we fess up. Apologies go a long, long ways. Admitting you’ve done wrong and showing your kids you are truly sorry and asking them for forgiveness not only makes YOU feel better, it teaches your kids a valuable lesson or two. None of us are perfect, it’s okay to mess up, and it is freeing to ask for forgiveness.

If you are really wrestling with any and/or all of the questions mentioned above, I would LOVE to have a complimentary 60 minute session with you. Why? Because you CAN find joy in parenting those kiddos of yours. The generational junk stops with you, friend.

Ready to get started on your new, fun, enjoyable parenting future? Email me at starkeycoaching@gmail.com and we will get you on my calendar!